Being successful, winning, achieving, accomplishing anything requires that you first have a destination in mind. In other words you must a goal; a single, all important goal that you are focusing on achieving, getting to, obtaining, having, etc.
What is it that you want? What are your deepest desires? What do you long for? What do you dream about? What is it that you believe you were put on this earth to do? What is your deepest desire?